Tuesday, July 31, 2007

you can run but you can't hide...


Bollywood actor Sanjay Dutt arrives at a special court trying cases of the 1993 Mumbai bombings that killed 257 people in Mumbai, India, Tuesday

Sanjay Dutt (born July 29, 1959) is a famous two time Filmfare Awards winner movie star actor in Bollywood and also........indulges as playback singer. he is considered the ultimate macho man in the Bollywood film industry. Such an amazing actor who gave hits like MUNNA BHAI MBBS was sentenced Tuesday to six years in prison for illegally possessing guns that he received from key plotters behind the 1993 bombings in Mumbai.......The judge himself wasn't sure if sunjo was involved but argued that keeping such weopons illegally is punishable by law.....sanjo dragged the whole thing for nearly 12 years but atlast they got him...The film industry could lose about $12 million US for two unfinished Dutt films, Alibag and Fraud, estimated Komal Nata, who runs Film Information, a trade guide...today when i was discusin the whole thing with a friend he told me that sunjay dutt and salman khan are good friends with Dawood Ibrahim.....i dont know if he's friends with such people or if he was involved in the whole bombing thing...i just know that i love his acting and i am in love with his looks...and i hope they reduce the time period of his imprisonment.....

Monday, July 30, 2007

Tissue paper...is that it....


A few days back i was in the library going through some of my notes ,when my freind Sarmad came up to me along with his new girlfriend....and then he told her that he's dating me and that we are about to get married...reason for the whole drama was that ...the girl wanted some kind of commitment and what better way to get ride of her..... the poor girl started crying...i got realy pissed but hes my friend so couldnt do anything else....it wasn't the first time...and neither was she the first girl....we all know that men treat women like tissue papers....use one and switch on to another one......usually it's the girl who suffer's....and our society even plays an important role in increasing the pain....

why do men do this and women ,why do they let it happen??

Saturday, July 28, 2007

THIS IS WHAT OUR LEADERS ARE TEACHING US....


Pakistan's Prime Minister Shaukat Aziz is a former private banker credited with recent reforms of his country's economy. He's done alot for our country...and what about his official trips.....just for the sake of his country ,he travels so much, to the extend that he never stays in pakistan for more then 60 days.....and so pays no tax...i m sure most of us dont know that we are required to pay tax on incomes and everything only if we stay in pakistan for more than 60 days...but shaukat aziz doest....hes done alot of other "GHAPLAS" too..no point in mentioning those ..... because we are good at discusing such issues but we dont actually do anything about them....the way i make plans to go to dubai with my frends but never end up making them happen.

Friday, July 27, 2007

I dont feel great about myself any more...



ohhhh no...not that,,,I am sure most people dont know that even in the 21rst century fathers sell off their daughters....if you read books like 'SOLD'. and 'THE FORBIDDEN LOVE'..you'll come to know about how low muslims can fall....These are not stories but an approach to tell the world what exactly is happening in the muslim world.... not about the destruction they have caused to the rest of the world but what they are doing to their own people......Is Islam all about "veiling",and 'jihad'??.....what about rest of the things it teaches us..Like 'peace'...Every person is answerable to God, and no onelse...Then who are we to decide what should be done with those who dont follow the right path......

Thursday, July 26, 2007

KING OR QUEEN OR WHATEVER IT IS.......


I know my point of view about Begum Nawazish Ali would break many hearts but this is how i feel about it:

I admit it is a great anchor,has sound knowlegde about whatever it talks about....i have heard it is very educated.......people infact, i even admire its beauti....n some even compare it to ashweria....i am sure everyone ,atleast every guy is a ashweria ray fan...but the thing which is bothering me is that it dresses up like a female infact does everything like a female.....but is actually looking for a girl to get married to....doesn't realy go with the image....

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

HELLOOOO..PAKISTAN


The whole drama against terrorism started after 9/11.......first a dummi was created by bush....in order to invade other nations ... known as 'OSAMA BIN LADIN'...... then a whole country afganistan was destroyed in order to find the dummi terrorist... ...okayyyyy....they can invade ,destroy,and do everything but they were not able to find a single soul... weird.........then there were rumors that osama escaped to iraq......and that iraq ..itself is a threat to the outside world...as the cruel kings of todays world believed that the iraqi government posses great amount of weopons of mass destruction ..iraq was even destroyed...but nothing of that sort was found......the basic motive behind the whole drama was to capture and rule over the oil fields and minerals ... the treasures of those nations ...the funny part is that now they believe he is in pakistan..........

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

how beneficial would the development of gwadar prove for the locals....

Some argue that the development of gwadar would and is proving really beneficial for the locals...according to them these locals who were jobless would now be getting jobs....but what kind of jobs are you offering these people?...would it really effect their living standards?
I don't think so......how would you feel if i snatch away your land and make you work there as a third class laboror .....same is happening in balochistan....government argues that no land is being snatched away,according to them the locals are selling off their lands themselves...now thats a clever move............ according to the government these people were jobless....so how did they manage to by lands?.........actually some of the government bodies distributed lands to these people....y did they do that?...it was done because the government wasn't allowed to sell off the lands directly to outsiders....even then the government argues that nothing was done against their will...but what do you expect from these poor people who dont have enough to feed themselves ...now wont they sell off their lands,and that is when its of no use to them....offcourse they would....
government argues that atleast they are getting jobs..... so what if they are working like slaves on their own land.government argues that for other posts education is must...they are even right now people cant have a matrik pass as a head or c.e.o..but who should be blamed for the illetracy rate....these poor people ,when they cant afford to live,would they be able to afford educating their children....so it is the governments fault if they are not educated.....
this is not it....even the whole sui gas thing is not in favour of balochistan.....balochistan provides gase to most of the parts of pakistan and only 4% of balochistan has access to it...though the population of only karachi is more than balochistan....
so in other words there is alot discrmination happening against balochistan....and i know the balochis feel it..and i dont think they would stay calm for long......mushi is planing to build another port in balochistan....'somiani'........i dont think this would benefit any one except a few top investors....and the emplementation would have davestating results......

Monday, July 23, 2007

CULTURE

It is a way of life that is learned, shared ,transmitted from one generation to another....some believe that human behavior is learnt whereas animal behaviour is instinctive...this is true but not to that extend....coz if we notice...ants learn their way back home by going over tables ,etc...same is the case with most animals such as bees and birds...scientists wanted to determine if animals can learn behaviour..they threw potatoes in a jungle..where there were alot of monkeys...if animal behaviour was instinctive the monkeys wouldnt have eaten the potatoes..but they did...when a young couple had their first child...they brought home a baby monkey too .till the age of 2 both of them learnt at the same pace...but after which the learning capabilties of the monkey declined.....so it is not right when we say that animal behaviour is instinctive ...its just that the importance of learnt behaviour for humans is far more greater than animals....
So now the question is how is human behaviour learnd ...its is learnt through a process called socialization...delinquent behaviour occurs due to lack of socialization.....when a person is not socialized enough to understand the values and follow the norms of the society....and over-socialization can even occur ..if the person is unable to cope up with the overall demands of the society....
Culture even needs to be shared...according to a research..two people were left in a hall t converse ..one of them was from north America and the other one was from south america...they started their conversation from one end of the hall to another....it was because they were brought up differently ...the south american was trying to maintain some distance....and the north american's culture was all about touching...if culture is not shared conflicts mifght occur....
To satisfy the defination of culture provided above it even needs to be transmitted...now i m sure all of us know 'tarzan' ....some real life examples could be 'Anna and Assabella' and the 'wolf children'...these kids were found in jungle ,here they recieved no socialization ...due to which they dint know how to talk,walk or eat.so if a human is not socialized it may not behave the way humans do......

Saturday, July 21, 2007

MOHANDAS GHANDI


Today wen i was in the cafetaria ,sumbdy kam up to me n told me that the admin of the university found some cigrates in the girls wash room and they believe that me and my bunch of frneds were involvd.....i got so pissed that i directly went to one of the teachers and startd protesting..dat teacher listnd t everything i had to say...and told me somthing .....sumthin which hit me real bad...it was a famous saying...according to which ...if people r talkin about u ,n watever they are sayin is right ,there is no reason to get angry,becoz watever they are saying is right,and if wat they r sayin is wrong,there is still no nyd to get angry coz wateva they are saying is not true. .....and which was by......Mohandas Gandhi Known as Mahatma ('Great-Soul'), Gandhi was the leader of the Indian nationalist movement against British rule, and is widely considered the father of his country. His doctrine of non-violent protest to achieve political and social progress has been hugely influential.

Friday, July 20, 2007

superman vs commander safeguard...






i like washing my hands wid safeguard ...i duno y its just dat i m not comfortable wid using anyoda soap......wen i wash my hands wid safeguard..i fyl awl germ free..yoyoyoy....i think this is the case with most of pakistanis..n specially wid my sister...yesterday morning she wasnt having her breakfast and wen my mom asked her wats rong ... she told her that she kant have food cos her hands r dirty n dat she wants a new commander safeguard ..i kno dats lame..but dats how kids and even adults r reacting ..mayb its due to the whole animated episode which was produced to promote the soap.... n um sure everybdy loved it..n specialy "dirtuu" and "kachra rani" n how can i frget our hero 'commander safeguard'.......who is now more popular in pakistan than any oda super hero ..may it b "superman" r "spiderman"........

Thursday, July 19, 2007

2*2*2*2*.........................

if u fold a normal paper 50 tymz ....mayb a page from a register.........wat height wud it reach????..any idea....wel...ppl dun expect more then a few inchzzzz.....but guesss....wat....it can easily cover the difference between the earth and the moon......n if u fold it one more tym??????....dis whole concept startd a long tym bak....its an old story...according to which a guy went up to xyz king and askd fo sumthin.....the king expected that the poor old guy wud ask for gold or sumthin...bu he actualy asked if he could have some rice....the king ordered his guards to get him wat he wants....the old guy..placed 2 rice grains in one bowl n den 4 in the second bowl...n den 8..16.....den a tym came wen there was no more rice left in the kingdom.... but when the king came to know bout the whole thing...he ordrd his guards to kill the old man.....he was killed but his clever idea even tday is of gr8 use to us......

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

EVERYTHIN DONE IN PAKISTAN IS THRU???

ALOT OF POOR PAKISTANIS THINK IT IS DONE THROUGH THE TAXS THEY PAY.LYK FOR BUYING A 32RS SOAP THEY PAY 7RS TAX...SO OFFCOURSE IT SHOULD BE MORE THEN ENOUGH.....BUT HELLOOOO.....ITS NOT....THEN THERE IS THE FINANCE GENERATED BY THE GOVERMENT SECTOR .........SO OFFCOURSE IT SHOULD BE ENOUGH.....BUT HELLOOOOO...ITS NOT.......SO NOW COMES IN THE GOVERNMENT...AND DOES WHAT ITS GOOOD AT.....AND THAT IS BEGGING....OH UM SORRY...BORROWING....BUT HELLOOOO THATS NOT EVEN ENOUGH....THE GOVERNMENT OF PAKISTAN DISTRIBUTES THE AIDS AMONGST THE PEOPLE WORKING FOR THE GOVERNMENT AND INDIRECTLY FOR US....THESE PEOPLE INCLUDE ARMY OFFICERS,MINISTERS..N ETC.......BUT THE ISSUE IS HOW TO PAY BACK....AND SO THE SOLUTION IS...BORROW MORE AND PAY THE EXISTING INSTALLEMENTS..AND THE REST IS SHARED AMONGST THE PEOPLE WORKING FOR THE BETTERMENT OF PAKISTAN......AND SO THE POOR PUBLIC GOES THROUGH THE SUFFERING OF GIVING MORE N MORE SHARE OF THEIR INCOMES TO THE GOVERNMENT....BUT HELLOOOOO...DAT IS NOT EVEN ENOUGH......AND SO THIS CYCLE WUDNT COME TO AN END UNTILL THE PUBLIC DOES SUMTHIN...AND DAT SUMTHING CAN BE DONE FIRSTLY BY CORRECTING THEMSELVZ AND THEN THEIR SURROUNDING....

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

CLIFTON GRILL OR GOOD FO NOTHIN...SAME THING

i jus recieved a msg tday on my celll,,,YELLOW PRESENTS "GOOD BYE SUMMER" IN ASSOCIATION WID FASHION HOUSE,PARTY CLUB MUSIK AT EDGE(CLIFTON GRILL BASEMENT ON 21st OF JULY 2007)....everything else including their food din work out so now they r offering their empty retaurant for other stuff...i rememba going there once.....n the whole experience was so pathetic....awl my friendz including me had to suffer thru food poison......i love dinin out wid my friendzz....bu in karachi ....there r not many good retaurants.....which means ppl owning n wrking in such retaurants need to work realy hard to achieve that standard..........

Monday, July 16, 2007

i hate guyz lyk my frend sarmad..............

when i take sarmadz name it certainly haz t do sumthing wid flirting.....so ya i just hapen t bump into a guy lyk him.today....this horible incednt hapend when i was completing my assignment in the library...n dis ugly wannabe entrd into the library and grabd the chair next to me....and then startd tellin me about hz successful business and blah blah.....but ya i have to thank sarmad for helping me get out of his grip...am i the only one who hate such guys or is it the same wid every oda grl...

Sunday, July 1, 2007

... and the wisdom to know the difference

I often feel whether it is possible for one person to have enough passion in their stride to change the world? To inspire people to think differently, to think about the world and not just about themselves. I think deep down, this was the very reason I decided to study psychology. Back then it felt like a random decision, but now it feels like divine intervention.

Riding back from a meeting that I had with a few friends to do something about the rain effected areas in balochistan i met with this scene entering sh faisal just a few moments after the rain ended. I wonder whether this has anything to do with being educated or not. I got home 30 minutes later but i'm sure a good percentage of people on the other side of the road would have taken at least another couple of hours to get home.