Tissue paper...is that it....

A few days back i was in the library going through some of my notes ,when my freind Sarmad came up to me along with his new girlfriend....and then he told her that he's dating me and that we are about to get married...reason for the whole drama was that ...the girl wanted some kind of commitment and what better way to get ride of her..... the poor girl started crying...i got realy pissed but hes my friend so couldnt do anything else....it wasn't the first time...and neither was she the first girl....we all know that men treat women like tissue papers....use one and switch on to another one......usually it's the girl who suffer's....and our society even plays an important role in increasing the pain....

why do men do this and women ,why do they let it happen??

THIS IS WHAT OUR LEADERS ARE TEACHING US....

Pakistan's Prime Minister Shaukat Aziz is a former private banker credited with recent reforms of his country's economy. He's done alot for our country...and what about his official trips.....just for the sake of his country ,he travels so much, to the extend that he never stays in pakistan for more then 60 days.....and so pays no tax...i m sure most of us dont know that we are required to pay tax on incomes and everything only if we stay in pakistan for more than 60 days...but shaukat aziz doest....hes done alot of other "GHAPLAS" too..no point in mentioning those ..... because we are good at discusing such issues but we dont actually do anything about them....the way i make plans to go to dubai with my frends but never end up making them happen.

I dont feel great about myself any more...

ohhhh no...not that,,,I am sure most people dont know that even in the 21rst century fathers sell off their daughters....if you read books like 'SOLD'. and 'THE FORBIDDEN LOVE'..you'll come to know about how low muslims can fall....These are not stories but an approach to tell the world what exactly is happening in the muslim world.... not about the destruction they have caused to the rest of the world but what they are doing to their own people......Is Islam all about "veiling",and 'jihad'??.....what about rest of the things it teaches us..Like 'peace'...Every person is answerable to God, and no onelse...Then who are we to decide what should be done with those who dont follow the right path......

KING OR QUEEN OR WHATEVER IT IS.......

I know my point of view about Begum Nawazish Ali would break many hearts but this is how i feel about it:

I admit it is a great anchor,has sound knowlegde about whatever it talks about....i have heard it is very educated.......people infact, i even admire its beauti....n some even compare it to ashweria....i am sure everyone ,atleast every guy is a ashweria ray fan...but the thing which is bothering me is that it dresses up like a female infact does everything like a female.....but is actually looking for a girl to get married to....doesn't realy go with the image....

HELLOOOO..PAKISTAN

The whole drama against terrorism started after 9/11.......first a dummi was created by bush....in order to invade other nations ... known as 'OSAMA BIN LADIN'...... then a whole country afganistan was destroyed in order to find the dummi terrorist... ...okayyyyy....they can invade ,destroy,and do everything but they were not able to find a single soul... weird.........then there were rumors that osama escaped to iraq......and that iraq ..itself is a threat to the outside world...as the cruel kings of todays world believed that the iraqi government posses great amount of weopons of mass destruction ..iraq was even destroyed...but nothing of that sort was found......the basic motive behind the whole drama was to capture and rule over the oil fields and minerals ... the treasures of those nations ...the funny part is that now they believe he is in pakistan..........

how beneficial would the development of gwadar prove for the locals....

Some argue that the development of gwadar would and is proving really beneficial for the locals...according to them these locals who were jobless would now be getting jobs....but what kind of jobs are you offering these people?...would it really effect their living standards?

I don't think so......how would you feel if i snatch away your land and make you work there as a third class laboror .....same is happening in balochistan....government argues that no land is being snatched away,according to them the locals are selling off their lands themselves...now thats a clever move............ according to the government these people were jobless....so how did they manage to by lands?.........actually some of the government bodies distributed lands to these people....y did they do that?...it was done because the government wasn't allowed to sell off the lands directly to outsiders....even then the government argues that nothing was done against their will...but what do you expect from these poor people who dont have enough to feed themselves ...now wont they sell off their lands,and that is when its of no use to them....offcourse they would....

government argues that atleast they are getting jobs..... so what if they are working like slaves on their own land.government argues that for other posts education is must...they are even right now people cant have a matrik pass as a head or c.e.o..but who should be blamed for the illetracy rate....these poor people ,when they cant afford to live,would they be able to afford educating their children....so it is the governments fault if they are not educated.....

this is not it....even the whole sui gas thing is not in favour of balochistan.....balochistan provides gase to most of the parts of pakistan and only 4% of balochistan has access to it...though the population of only karachi is more than balochistan....

so in other words there is alot discrmination happening against balochistan....and i know the balochis feel it..and i dont think they would stay calm for long......mushi is planing to build another port in balochistan....'somiani'........i dont think this would benefit any one except a few top investors....and the emplementation would have davestating results......

CULTURE

It is a way of life that is learned, shared ,transmitted from one generation to another....some believe that human behavior is learnt whereas animal behaviour is instinctive...this is true but not to that extend....coz if we notice...ants learn their way back home by going over tables ,etc...same is the case with most animals such as bees and birds...scientists wanted to determine if animals can learn behaviour..they threw potatoes in a jungle..where there were alot of monkeys...if animal behaviour was instinctive the monkeys wouldnt have eaten the potatoes..but they did...when a young couple had their first child...they brought home a baby monkey too .till the age of 2 both of them learnt at the same pace...but after which the learning capabilties of the monkey declined.....so it is not right when we say that animal behaviour is instinctive ...its just that the importance of learnt behaviour for humans is far more greater than animals....

So now the question is how is human behaviour learnd ...its is learnt through a process called socialization...delinquent behaviour occurs due to lack of socialization.....when a person is not socialized enough to understand the values and follow the norms of the society....and over-socialization can even occur ..if the person is unable to cope up with the overall demands of the society....

Culture even needs to be shared...according to a research..two people were left in a hall t converse ..one of them was from north America and the other one was from south america...they started their conversation from one end of the hall to another....it was because they were brought up differently ...the south american was trying to maintain some distance....and the north american's culture was all about touching...if culture is not shared conflicts mifght occur....

To satisfy the defination of culture provided above it even needs to be transmitted...now i m sure all of us know 'tarzan' ....some real life examples could be 'Anna and Assabella' and the 'wolf children'...these kids were found in jungle ,here they recieved no socialization ...due to which they dint know how to talk,walk or eat.so if a human is not socialized it may not behave the way humans do......